Mother's Day

Preparing for Sunday's message, I have been thinking a good deal about how difficult it is to be a mother. As a father, I have roles, duties, and expectations that are placed on me from a variety of sources. It's helpful to wade into the waters of those sources and test them against Scripture, but often, the waters are murky and difficult to navigate. As I see mothers beating themselves up, looking back and asking hard questions like, "Was I good mom?" and "Did I fail them?" or "Did I love them enough?". Few professions or careers require or inspire this kind of introspection later in life.

In the book, Mom Enough, the reader finds an assortment of mothers from all walks of life writing on the beauty, frustration, and sanctifying role of being a Christian mother. I highly recommend it for mothers and for fathers. For fresh water to the mothers and understanding for the fathers. Here's a section written by Rachel Jankovic that hit home to me:

“There is a good old saying that distance adds intrigue. It is certainly true—just think back to anything that has ever been distant from you that is now near. Your driver’s license. Marriage. Children. Things that used to seem so fascinating, but as they drew near become less mystical and more, well, real. This same principle also applies to mission fields. The closer you get to home, the less intriguing the work of sacrifice seems. As another good old saying goes, “Everyone wants to save the world, but no one wants to help Mom with the dishes.” When you are a mother at home with your children, the church is not clamoring for monthly ministry updates. When you talk to other believers, they don’t communicate awe about what you are sacrificing for the gospel. People do not press you for needs they can fill for you, or how they can pray for you. Your life does not feel intriguing, or glamorous. Your work is normal, because you are as close to home as you can possibly be. You have actually gone so far as to become home.” 

Truly, godly mothers always feel like home, no matter where they are. Happy Mother's Day to you and yours.